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BF/GFs who are friends with their exes (pg. 5)
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by XaNaX
finally some common ing sense in this thread. It's so ing annoying when someone is all obsessive about being friends with an ex. The ing relationship didn't work out, let it go and move on. I personally wouldn't tolerate someone being "friends" with the person they most recently broke up with if we were in a new relationship and I damn sure wouldn't be going out to dinner with them and like that. You have a ing mental problem if you expect your boyfriend or girlfriend to be cool with you being good friends with someone you just got out of a relationship with, especially if you were with that person a long time. A few years later maybe, but not right away.
Jamie, have your BF call me and I'll slap him upside the head through the phone. |
:stongue: <3 |
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| Project-K |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
he is french canadian too and doesn't have that many friends down here other than the few other french canadians he knows, so i guess he feels like holding onto whatever friends he has down here....even if it's an ex. |
Dude wtf, it's Florida. There's more quebecois there than there is in quebec. :wtf: |
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| verndogs |
| I'd just burn the bridge |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Project-K
Dude wtf, it's Florida. There's more quebecois there than there is in quebec. :wtf: |
lol i didn't realize it till i met him. but it's not that bad, it's like little russia in sunny isles beach. the only ones taking over south florida are the ing goya beans:stongue: |
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| idoru |
| I think what's most odd about this entire situation is the fact that Jamie is actually making a relationship advice thread. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by idoru
I think what's most odd about this entire situation is the fact that Jamie is actually making a relationship advice thread. |
lol why? dont i always make them? |
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| Alex |
This thread has really made me want to go smoke about 4 cigarettes in a row.
Relationship bull is so damn stressful and I don't know why :( |
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| Project-K |
| quote: | Originally posted by Alex
This thread has really made me want to go smoke about 4 cigarettes in a row. |
That's what cigars are for. |
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| The17sss |
| quote: | Originally posted by Teh Jim
What if you're just good friends? My ex and I are best friends and talk a heap. It has made some things hard but, as has been said, we broke up for a reason. We don't have out to spice things up, we hang out because we have a heap in common and can genuinely be friends without that stereotypical "100% horny guy" thing.
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Yeah there are exceptions... I was speaking generally because I do believe in more cases than not, it's difficult to have a true friendship with zero alterior motives by one or both if you are ex's. That's just the way it goes. It's easier to do if a few years have passed without talking to your ex and you've both essentially evolved into different people. But if the breakup has been relatively recent, the reciprocal just friends thing is an illusion |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Alex
This thread has really made me want to go smoke about 4 cigarettes in a row.
Relationship bull is so damn stressful and I don't know why :( |
i know i hate it. trust me though, i like my relationships as drama-free as possible. i know this is my i have to deal with and i will. i hate fighting and all that and we actually don't. i refuse to let this turn into an actual big fight. not worth it. he is way too good to me and we have way too much fun together.
the first thing he did was drop his pants when he came inside. not because he wanted to get some, but because he was really hot. :stongue: i was just standing there like ".... uh hi honey" :wtf: |
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