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Long distance relationships (pg. 6)
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by UmmiE
Well it all depends on how strong your relationship with that person is and how often you guys communicate with eachother.......I talk to her everyday and we talk for hours (long distance plan expenses
:whip:)
Well its not for long she will be here within 6 months time.
It doesnt feel like long distance besides that fact that she isnt here and I cant go see her see her anytime....I pretty much know what happens in her life on a daily basis.....plus msn and webcams help too:o |
Webcam for fap fap fap |
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| UmmiE |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
Webcam for fap fap fap |
Well thats when you have a very beautiful wifey;) |
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by UmmiE
Well thats when you have a very beautiful wifey;) |
Your wife looked hot :o |
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| whiskers |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
Your wife looked hot :o |
Club's bathroom have bad lighting so you couldn't see well? |
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by whiskers
Club's bathroom have bad lighting so you couldn't see well? |
Ahhh.... maybe? i dunno what you are talkinga bout. |
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| AMMORA |
i'm curious out of the guys in this thread, would you or wouldn't you be more likely to go along with a long-distance relationship? seems like the majority of guys would rather hold out for something close to home than deal with long distance.
in the beginning of summer i met an awesome guy 4 hours away while i was covering for a manager at work. i got to visit several times and we seemed to be doing just fine, despite the distance...then he pulled the plug on it, stating it was the actual distance that he couldn't deal with. i thought it was a cop-out and he just wanted to be free to bang whomever...but he still keeps in touch with me quite often and inquires when i'm moving down there (which is in the works within the coming months). it always confuses me b/c if he doesn't think i'm worth committing to with a 4 hour distance, why does he care if i move there or not in the near future? |
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| elFreak |
| you refer to that one as the get into vagina free card. |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by AMMORA
i'm curious out of the guys in this thread, would you or wouldn't you be more likely to go along with a long-distance relationship? seems like the majority of guys would rather hold out for something close to home than deal with long distance.
in the beginning of summer i met an awesome guy 4 hours away while i was covering for a manager at work. i got to visit several times and we seemed to be doing just fine, despite the distance...then he pulled the plug on it, stating it was the actual distance that he couldn't deal with. i thought it was a cop-out and he just wanted to be free to bang whomever...but he still keeps in touch with me quite often and inquires when i'm moving down there (which is in the works within the coming months). it always confuses me b/c if he doesn't think i'm worth committing to with a 4 hour distance, why does he care if i move there or not in the near future? |
| quote: | Originally posted by elFreak
you refer to that one as the get into vagina free card. |
And btw, I am in general very against LDRs because of the things that it usually results in. Distrust is the biggest one, but the other is distance and emotional needs for both. What those may be are different for each, but I know women are all emotional creatures and require that physical interaction regularly or they start to feel inadequate (this is a sweeping generalization). |
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| fbgdavidson |
| quote: | Originally posted by AMMORA
i'm curious out of the guys in this thread, would you or wouldn't you be more likely to go along with a long-distance relationship? |
In my case there has to be an exit strategy to the LDR. I wasn't going to keep flying over every 6 weeks once I was out of University. For me it was either end or it or one of us emigrates. As she was out of University a year before me and she got settled with a decent job, apartment etc it made sense for me to be the one to move. I really didn't mind the move, I'd spent a lot of time in the US growing up so knew the lifestyle. |
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| josh rising |
| i've done it before, i'd do it again. it all depends on the person and the situation. i think long-distance relationships are actually better than short-distance ones, there's much more passion and you always end up doing something fun at least with them. |
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| Ted Promo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
You're an attractive guy, Lira. I mean that. Sure you're sort of a dork, but once women get out of school, they learn to appreciate that sort of thing.
Don't expect other girls to not notice you for one moment, I am sure that half of your friends have their eyes on you now that this other girl is out of the picture. And you can afford to be discerning amongst them, I'm sure.
I am, for obvious reasons, reticent to tell you how you should feel, but I do however genuinely believe that this whole 'how do I maintain a long-distance relationship' business is a temporary thing. I suppose this is the part where I am supposed to urge you to ask yourself certain questions, but I think I will just skip that phase and propose to you that men are largely visual creatures and temporal beings; that is to say, we are far more comfortable being bearers of seed than bearers of responsibility and that biology is a thing we are remiss to conquer. Are we slaves to it? Possibly. But I cannot say I have ever been truly subjugated by a dynamic I extract pleasure from. So indulge with responsibility. Tell your girlfriend that your love may be for her, but your body is not her temple. That you shall involve yourself with others trusted amongst your social circle and that the sex you exercise is a thing she is to celebrate in her love for you else it is an impure admiration of supposed possession; that her 'love' for you is ephemeral and based strictly upon ownership. You'll be rid of that pest for sure. Go for it. |
This. Oh god this. |
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| UWM |
I sometimes have a hard time and my girlfriend lives only 2 hours away and we see each other on a weekly basis.
Thankfully that all changes this weekend. |
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