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Friendship and sex (pg. 2)
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| Aortik |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
Although when I nearly did, if it wasn't for the fact that A) it was my friends wedding and B) someone literally had to hold me back.... I would have. :mad: |
How incredibly trashy, I would have expected more from you. |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
Kind of a related question I guess:
Guys, would you get uneasy if your girlfriend went out with a group of guys? Or with just one other guy?
Girls, would you get uneasy if your boyfriend went out with a group of girls? Or with just one other girl? |
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| adi_hanson |
i asked once if my mate would fancy giving me a wank with her gob , but she declined ,
we are no longer friends |
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| david.michael |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
Kind of a related question I guess:
Guys, would you get uneasy if your girlfriend went out with a group of guys? Or with just one other guy? |
It totally depends on your S/O as a person, whether you are willing to admit it to yourself or not.
My girlfriend (whom I live with and have a long-term relationship with) does this and I don't sweat it at all because I'm not at all concerned that she's a dirty skank.
However, had my now-ex wife done this, it would have driven me bonkers.. regardless of how much trust I tried to convince myself that I had in her. |
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| Acton |
| quote: | Originally posted by adi_hanson
i asked once if my mate would fancy giving me a wank with her gob , but she declined ,
we are no longer friends |
:stongue: |
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| Yohan |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
Kind of a related question I guess:
Guys, would you get uneasy if your girlfriend went out with a group of guys? Or with just one other guy?
Girls, would you get uneasy if your boyfriend went out with a group of girls? Or with just one other girl? |
No. If I didnt trust a girl, I wouldnt be in a relationship with her
Girl would have my trust until she proves otherwise. If she cheats on me and I find out, I give her the big boot (maybe in the face) |
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| Aortik |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
Guys, would you get uneasy if your girlfriend went out with a group of guys? Or with just one other guy? |
Uneasy? Perhaps, but not because I would really worry about something she would do. Also, it greatly depends on just who she is going out with and where they are going. But I don't see a point in worrying your partner is going to cheat on you... worrying won't impel them to do it, nor will it stop them, and it's merely the result of insecurities... which are a completely valid and realistic thing in any relationship, it is often just a matter of how you let them affect you. |
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| squirrelly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aortik
How incredibly trashy, I would have expected more from you. |
You would have? How so?
In all honesty, I was so angry about her behavior at the wedding. She was literally, ruining the wedding. She stood outside and talked trash so loudly everyone was irritated - and then proceeded to sit at the table with my friends and I (mind you, we've been friends 13 years) and continued talking trash about myself AND the BRIDE in everyone's ear. Then when we all took group pictures together she started commenting about "slut this and that". I was so angry at her disrespect. She deserved to get at least bitch-slapped. I don't find the fact that she's 5 years younger an excuse. You should be respectful at a wedding, no matter WHAT your age.
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
Girls, would you get uneasy if your boyfriend went out with a group of girls? Or with just one other girl? |
Not so much. I don't really care... if he didn't want to be with me, he wouldn't. And you can't stop someone from cheating on you. If they want to, they will. So why get all paranoid?
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Although, if one particular girl were involved... I would get uneasy. Not because I don't trust HIM... but because she is known to get a little out of hand and ignore boundaries. I have no doubt he would stop an escalating situation - however, no one really WANTS their S.O. to be put in that kind of situation. |
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| Aortik |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
You would have? How so? |
Not a single mention of teeth-kicking or eye-gouging... just what sort of weddings do you go to anyhow?? |
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| squirrelly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aortik
Not a single mention of teeth-kicking or eye-gouging... just what sort of weddings do you go to anyhow?? |
A punch to the face is more satisfying ;) |
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| david.michael |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
Although, if one particular girl were involved... I would get uneasy. Not because I don't trust HIM... but because she is known to get a little out of hand and ignore boundaries. I have no doubt he would stop an escalating situation - however, no one really WANTS their S.O. to be put in that kind of situation. |
I'll agree with this as well. Sometimes I get uneasy because of this, not because I have any doubt in my mind that my s/o is going to do anything. Though, this is often used as a crutch and excuse by many to be insecure. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
Kind of a related question I guess:
Guys, would you get uneasy if your girlfriend went out with a group of guys? Or with just one other guy? |
Absolutely not, I have complete trust in Mrs. Hazard. Of course she could betray my trust and I would look foolish; however, a marriage cannot work well without trust so I choose to trust. Love without trust is not love and a marriage without trust can't last. |
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