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Friendship and sex (pg. 3)
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| david.michael |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Absolutely not, I have complete trust in Mrs. Hazard. Of course she could betray my trust and I would look foolish; however, a marriage cannot work well without trust so I choose to trust. Love without trust is not love and a marriage without trust can't last. |
Well said! |
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| Aortik |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
Although, if one particular girl were involved... I would get uneasy. Not because I don't trust HIM... but because she is known to get a little out of hand and ignore boundaries. I have no doubt he would stop an escalating situation - however, no one really WANTS their S.O. to be put in that kind of situation. |
I completely agree. When guys get way too feely with my girlfriend, it's like the only scenario I can think of that I become really livid over the thought of. Within just the past few weeks, some married guy we know hugged her and got all gropey with her, wouldn't let her go. And THEN some guy she was showing a room to (she is a sales director) totally tried to get down with her right then and there. Of course, he is the regional head of some Swingers club... and she did promptly knee him right in the groin, but still! |
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| squirrelly |
| quote: | Originally posted by david.michael
I'll agree with this as well. Sometimes I get uneasy because of this, not because I have any doubt in my mind that my s/o is going to do anything. Though, this is often used as a crutch and excuse by many to be insecure. |
This, I agree with. However, you can usually differentiate between those that use it as a crutch and those who do not. Those who use it as a crutch follow "I'm going out with so and so" with "What?! Where?! For how long? When are you going to be back?" and also proceed to call the cell phone 38403843368404120 times and freak out on the phone to all of their friends. |
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| david.michael |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
This, I agree with. However, you can usually differentiate between those that use it as a crutch and those who do not. Those who use it as a crutch follow "I'm going out with so and so" with "What?! Where?! For how long? When are you going to be back?" and also proceed to call the cell phone 38403843368404120 times and freak out on the phone to all of their friends. |
lol, yeah. In my own personal experience, though, it is possible to be subtle about it and still feel insecure (I've been that person). Usually, there is a reason for it with these people, and it should act as a huge red flag. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
Has anyone here found that you're better at making friends with the opposite sex than with your own? For the past five years or so that's been the case for me. Not sure why...
Of course I've seen a number of guys here say that men either can't really or shouldn't be friends with women outside the context of looking for sex. But I say that's a load of crap.
What about you? |
I've always had way more girl-friends than guy-friends, but I'm probably a male lesbian :D
Even before I entered a serious relationship, I can't say I was attracted to more than 10~15% of my friends.
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
Guys, would you get uneasy if your girlfriend went out with a group of guys? Or with just one other guy? |
Not really. I've been out with girls even after I started dating, but I've never done anything that could make my fiancée worried. Hell, I even made a trip to another state with a group of friends, got drunk, and all I could babble about was how great I thought my sweetheart is :p |
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| Renzo |
Generally speaking, platonic relationships between a man a woman do not exist. They might at first, but eventually one grows feelings for the other. It's natural. We're human beings. And when this happens, of course, the friendship is no longer the same. The advice is never the same. It's skewed and no longer pure.
That's why it's best to have girl friends who you once in a while. I know I do. Cut right through the bull. I care about them, but I care a lot more when my penis is in their mouth. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by shadow_419
One theorem to rule them all
Ladder Theory |
The ladder's theory is egregious. |
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| Vivid Boy |
Im tired of the oppostie sex. Tired of thinking abtthem tired of talkin to them, tired of putting up with their psycho feelings controlled behavior. Tired of the bull they say, tired of them fallin in love every 2 seconds, tired of them period. chicks. Only good for cooking cleanin and suckin dick and editing essays.
I wish there was no such thing as marriage. Just everyone out running a muck, doing hteir own thing and in every night.
thats bliss. |
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| Renzo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
chicks. Only good for cooking cleanin and suckin dick and editing essays. |
. I am usually the one editing bitches' essays. Unlucky. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
Im tired of the oppostie sex. |
You're going back to school, aren't you, Eric?
I bet your opinion will change in no time :D |
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| shadow_419 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
The ladder's theory is egregious. |
True, but it's still funny. |
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