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Adopted TA's - anyone? (pg. 21)
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Vivid Boy
I always tell my boys if i ever impregnate a canadian mexican. I am driving her down to mexico to have the kid. theyre like "why??? to keep the blood pure?"

im like "nah this way when its time to go back to canada, they cant come"
bananas
so you always tell the same story and they keep asking the same question?
Zyklon_Jay
in tijuana the preferred method of abortion is forced rape.
Silky Johnson
Isn't that a bit redundant? You grammarless .
Halcyon+On+On
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Originally posted by Zyklon_Jay
in tijuana the preferred method of conception is forced rape.


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Halcyon+On+On
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Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
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Originally posted by Zyklon_Jay
in tijuana the preferred method of employment is forced rape.
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Yo that's ed. :mad:
VDub
Theresa
While I don't think anyone is owed an explanation, I thought I would take the opportunity to defend myself.

I did not bring up my mother dying because I wanted attention/pity/to divert from anything else. I was trying to give context to the story. Obviously if a single-parent dies and there is no where for the child to go, foster care is the only choice and I am not saying that is a bad thing (obviously not ideal but better than being abandoned).

If I understand correctly, they were trying to find my biological father, which complicated the whole process. I wasn't in foster care for a year, it was only 3 months and the remaining time I stayed with my grandparents. There are details to the story that I am not divulging (because while I might be dumb enough to share even the smallest amount of personal information, I know better than to lay it all out there). This isn't to say that I have a bad family. Things were complicated.

My mother had her uterus, ovaries and cervix removed and then went into remission. The cancer returned last year and she is now terminal. This is why I got sensitive about it and I am sorry for resorting to calling you names Jen.

Anyway, I was trying to say that I don't agree with women who get pregnant and know during the pregnancy that they have no intention of keeping the baby and instead opt for adoption. Why bring a life into this world and then dump it off some place else where they are likely to suffer? I recognize there are extenuating circumstances where this doesn't apply. I also realize that it's unrealistic and would never happen. I am just saying that, if it were up to me, people wouldn't be allowed to do that (AKA I am anti-giving-your-child-up-for-adoption). Abortion to me seems like the only logical and humane alternative.

However, that is obviously not the case and hundreds of thousands of children all over the world grow up without homes. After getting just a glance of what some of these kids go through, I have a special spot in my heart for them. If I ever can, I would like to make at least one person's life better by giving them a loving home, especially since I have no desire to have natural children.

Yes, my desire not to have kids naturally is to some degree my own way of helping Darwinism work (I don't actually have very good genes - a lot of cancers), much of it has to do with the fact that I am extremely high risk for the same cancers my mother had/has. In 2008 I had surgery to remove a tumor from my ovary. I am going in for a consultation on June 14th to get a hysterectomy as a result.

Anyway, don't start congratulating yourselves for anything because what I am about to say is not entirely related to what happened in this thread.

I have decided to leave TA. I feel that the community here has become volatile and it simply isn't fun anymore. I have taken more than my fair share of beatings on this forum and I would say my skin is thick. However, someone decided to cross the line and attempted to bring it into my personal life. I don't know who it was, but I have my suspicions. My real life is far more important than TA and if someone on here dislikes me enough to try and things up with my personal relationships, I think it's time to step down. Verbal abuse and attacks on the forum I can take, but I am not going to tolerate that .

The first couple of years were great fun. I made a lot of friends and because of the people I met through TA, my life changed for the better. I am grateful to those of you who have made my experience positive. I wish everyone here, even the ones I didn't get along with, the best of luck in the future! Have fun!
Vivid Boy
how do people keep getting other tas personal information and with their personal lives?? I dont get it. lol are you just posting your personal information everywhere?
wienerschnitzel
i'm assuming someone who was on ta and also her facebook?

Silky Johnson
I call bs on that. Wtf.

Anyway, sorry you feel it has to come to this, Theresa. I hope that, at the end of the day, you know our arguments were just that - petty squabbles on the internet.
Vivid Boy
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Originally posted by Miss Pie
I call bs on that. Wtf.

Anyway, sorry you feel it has to come to this, Theresa. I hope that, at the end of the day, you know our arguments were just that - petty squabbles on the internet.



jenny you should have never interfered with her personal life by ordering manure to her house
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