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The Official TOTA Multicultural Dating Thread (pg. 11)
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| Tiesto4Life |
Taking something from each relationship especially learning about different cultures is a gift to some. To others it's only about the sex.
And choons are great!! lol |
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| naesean3 |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
not just wrong but stupid.
what could possibly bring a person to write and respond to this thread? |
and yet again - over and over - why are people who think it is so STUPID to post in this thread - keep posting in it???
seems like ganging up to me........correct me if I'm wrong
your points have been made - you think those of us in here that have posted are STUPID, WRONG and DISGUSTING (in your opinion - your own words) - so do us a favour and dont talk to us when you see us out - for obviously you think we are all disgusting racist female degrading dumb bastards and have no place in your social circles.....:rolleyes:
I think that Fahad was just stating his diverse REAL acceptance of other cultures - (not degrading women) it's one thing to say you like/get along with people from other/diverse cultural backgrounds and a totally different thing to actually date/go out/marry someone from another cultural background..... IMO
the people that seem to have the most problem with this thread and shouting about racism seem to be white....LOL...anglosaxon/caucasian/european whatever! (diginut aside of course) from what I can see....
and I would be quite curious to know if any of these people complaining have seriously dated outside their own skin colours.....
I was gonna post something last night but thought meh.....now I am posting what I should have posted yesterday.
FAHAD wasn't bragging about sticking his DICK in anyone - nor was he trying to be a COR whore and post about "I am cooler than you because I macked a persian/french/spanish woman with a D-CUP"
the same as we talk about various DJ'S/TRACKS/GENRES/CLUBS/CLOTHING BRANDS/CELLPHONES/SHAVING CREAMS etc....we like, enjoy and have experienced and can comment on rightly so - I think this was just a thread to probe those on here for their cultural experiences beyond a "sometimes" superficial/politcally correct friendship level - in which dating obviously implies.
Here's a thought - regarding myself personally - I may be white but I am gay - so I have felt/heard derogatory akin to "racial" type slurs and ignorant comments just the same if not worse (although it is not politically correct to say call people niggger/chink/gook/wetback.........it still seems fine to call people "fags" no matter what race you are)
THAT - some ed up logic there if you ask me.
It is even more sad really when someone who lives here that is non-white makes this comment to me or gays in general - for how in the hell do they think they have any right saying that at all considering their cultures are still in its infancy of true social acceptance among the so-called white majority in North America. Talk about double-standards. We are in the same boat basically WTF????
we are all about breaking down "racial divides" yet still have major problems with breaking down our OWN races "sexual divides".
Pathetic!
also it is one thing for people to say they "know" and don't "mind" gay people and ACTUALLY being a gay persons friend and accepting/embracing them as an equal person - try to argue with that one people - for real!
The comments of "well I don't mind that he's gay - as long as he doesn't hit on me"
you hear that all the time......
well that comment implies fear - and fear fuels stereotypes and ignorance - and ignorance begets homophobia - while stereotypes perpetuate it. Just like fear, ignorance and stereotypes perptuate racism.
do you hear people saying "well I don't mind that they are Nigerian/Chinese/Pakistani/Persian...etc - as long as they don't try to marry me and change my culture?????"
no you don't so WTF?
or maybe you don't hear this because it is polically incorrect to say so - but silently people harbour fear of other races and do not go out of their "ethnic" comfort circle - so this will not be an issue that they will have to truly confront. I think this IS much more the case.
and that is what my impression of this thread was intended for - a conversational platform to express our diversity and REAL acceptance of one another on a level that is not so "skin-deep" and superfically politically correct as friendships sometimes are based upon.
so after posting all of this - do I still get branded as "STUPID" and "WRONG" and "DISGUSTING" by those who think this thread has no value.......
I would like to think I tried to make an honest effort, even draw some simliarlities to shed some light on some issues that are beyond a few peoples comfort levels and there is absolutely nothing STUPID OR WRONG OR DISGUSTING with that at all.....if I reach even one person to help them see through the bigoted crap that they think they can get away with while being righteous and self-serving than my posting was not in "VAIN" at all.
thanks for reading :D |
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| St_Andrew |
Haha, great post naesean3 :)
Everyone who don't like this thread now get the hell out of here or talk about multicultural dating :) |
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| iLLnaDa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Dancing*Queen
wow this thread isn't the best of idea's
why hasn't it been closed yet? |
why dont you call upon the great Webmonstah to close it then??
maybe yer request will be heard!
for f'in sakes |
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| loconet |
| quote: | Originally posted by fayraree
Oops, didn't think this would offend anyone...sorry, Loca! :(
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lol .. don't worry dude, was just joking. :)
c'mon people, move on. Life is too short to be constantly offended. |
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| iLLnaDa |
| quote: | Originally posted by naesean3
so after posting all of this - do I still get branded as "STUPID" and "WRONG" and "DISGUSTING" by those who think this thread has no value.......
I would like to think I tried to make an honest effort, even draw some simliarlities to shed some light on some issues that are beyond a few peoples comfort levels and there is absolutely nothing STUPID OR WRONG OR DISGUSTING with that at all.....if I reach even one person to help them see through the bigoted crap that they think they can get away with while being righteous and self-serving than my posting was not in "VAIN" at all.
thanks for reading :D |
of course you get branded cuz u ain't COOL like them hahahahhahaha
everything u just said is STUPID Sean its 'bollocks' delete that and go to sleep!! u should be ashamed for posting such an insightful piece on TA!!!
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| DigitalMP |
I didn't have sex with all of the girls whose background I've dated that I posted.
Does this mean I'm off the witching hook? I'd hate to get, well...stoned. |
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| StereoPrincess |
now who are the people being hypocrites? don't take things so seriously guys. just because someone doesn't agree with the topic at hand, doesn't mean they hate you and think you are stupid.
if only this thread title was worded differently, all would be normal. |
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| TranceGrooves |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
if only this thread title was worded differently, all would be normal. |
sorry , not to be rude or anything but you could have stated just that in your first 2 or 3 posts and all ELSE would have been normal as well :)
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
uugh, yeah...ok. |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
no seriously, why are people replying to thing dumb thread? |
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| Dancing*Queen |
| quote: | Originally posted by iLLnaDa
why dont you call upon the great Webmonstah to close it then??
maybe yer request will be heard!
for f'in sakes |
ummm was that necessary???
| quote: | Originally posted by SteroPrincess
now who are the people being hypocrites? don't take things so seriously guys. just because someone doesn't agree with the topic at hand, doesn't mean they hate you and think you are stupid.
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+1
I think this will be a never ending battle |
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| iLLnaDa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Dancing*Queen
ummm was that necessary???
+1
I think this will be a never ending battle |
yep that was my two cents just like everyone else said their part i said mine ...so what?? it was on my mind and i said it!
battle?? woah i wouldn't go that far....
p.s for clarification Karen the "for f'in sakes" part applies to everyone that has posted in this thread |
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| Dancing*Queen |
| ^^^^ the never ending battle was referring to people thinking you hate them for posting a disagreeance with someone else....nothing to do with this thread...was a generalization. |
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