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gay guys who use their sexual preference to their advantage...... (pg. 8)
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| Euphorica |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jayx1
I just came up with the next popular tshirt slogan...
"IF I TELL YOU IM GAY WILL YOU SHOW ME YOUR ?" |
GOLD!!!!!!!!!!!! :haha: |
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| tatgirl |
| quote: | Originally posted by naesean3
how did I miss this thread!!
With me being a predominantly gay dude - I have had the joy of many females as friends (a good number of them extremely good looking as well).
Many times in a club setting we have had fun - danced dirty - slapped each others assess......
It was what it was - fun - non-threatening and sexy.
Quite often it is the female initiating and encouraging the behaviour - and it is up to me to decide if I let it continue or not.
Some of my girlfriends saw it as a game (get the other straight guys all hot and bothered) some saw it as a way to release sexual tension and be expressive without worry of subversive intent, hell sometimes I am sure that the girls derived their own pleasure fantasies out of it unbeknownst to me.
Many girls like to go out with their gay friends to gay clubs for many reasons...
the freedom to dance without being oggled and groped constantly
to be sexually free - without being branded a whore
the attention they get from the guys who are gay (ego-boosts and all)
But the "preying on/acting gay" mentality is kinda creepy and as a few have mentioned this is not typically a normal thing among the gay community from what I have seen personally.
Bisexual guys - now there is a different story.
In my experiences:
Most bi-guys like the girl aspect more - and just are open minded to the closeness of a man to man friendship and the fooling around that it can entail because guys are always horny.
This is where some intention can be blurred and misread or mis-interpreted - when you are now including a 100% pool of sexuality to choose from (guys and girls as potential mates) - reasons for sexual union become less clearly defined and more emotionally/sporadically declared as reasons for craving one over the other. Having the best of both worlds can be a curse or a blessing. Each individual makes their choices accordingly.
There are many reasons why people are attracted to each other and sometimes we are not even sure why some people evoke a sexual stimulation in us while towards others we feel nothing.
So until I can bust it out on the dancefloor with my hot boyfriend. I will continue to enjoy the straight women in my life (and a couple of gay ones as well!!) wanting to dance it up with me and partake in some harmless flirting and display of our sexual freedoms. And for the record a few of my close guy friends have also partaked in this flirting as well - and much respect to you - I love you for it!
I hope that I personally have never offended anyone in this manner - for it was never intentional nor with hidden agenda. I usually take my cues from others - so as to not fall into a sticky situation - and I would hope that someone who was offended would of made it clear to me so as I may correct any such behaviour for future.
Interesting thread for sure.........
I have many types of friends for many reasons - some are more clearly defined than others but in the end - they are friends because they make me happy. Happy to be myself and happy to bring joy to their lives through our friendship and the moments we share.
:D |
If anyone's best to answer this question, it is Sean. Well versed, my lad!
P.S. I always enjoyed my harmless dirty dancing moments with Sean, seeing that b4 I knew he was gay (when we 1st met), I had a wee crush on him. :clown: |
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| E2EK1EL |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorwhore
I have on several occasions come across this situation. A few of my girlfriends have gay friends, and everytime they see them it's pretty much molestation immediately. Kiss on the lips, ass grab, you name it. Then all the sudden, they really let down their guard - and there is a titty grab, and they flip out. I think there is a gay guy conspiracy out there (not all gay guys, but a lot). I think they use their sexual preference to lure girls into thinking they are completely innocent - then without warning - BAM - they are in the middle of a gay guy sandwich.
I know others (on TA even) - have experienced this.
Discuss.
just to clear things up, i as well have NORMAL gay friends who dont display this kind of inappropriate behavior and in no way is this a shot at the gay population as a whole - just those who act straight when they feel like doing so to a girl who doesnt see it coming |
Yup it happen, one fo my exgf had this happen ... told her about it, but no .... "JOHN HE'S GAY!"
Wrong, he pretends to be all gay and and gets you a lone to creep you!
*btw, this dude is buck tooth super ugly too, no wonder he pretends to be gay to get girls* |
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| naesean3 |
| quote: | Originally posted by tatgirl
If anyone's best to answer this question, it is Sean. Well versed, my lad!
P.S. I always enjoyed my harmless dirty dancing moments with Sean, seeing that b4 I knew he was gay (when we 1st met), I had a wee crush on him. :clown: |
DON DIABLO!!!.......................WHAT??!!!
Haha - tis true babe. How oblivious was I to that fact at the very begining and if you hadn't have taken the time to introduce yourself and make that commment about DD - I love it when you tell that story!
MUAH!!!
| quote: | Originally posted by zookeeper
^^^^A very interesting read..
I still don't know how you guys deal with "a razor stubble kiss";)
...but if the shoe fits ;) |
Well the shoe fits - but I never gotten past the "razor stubble kiss" - SHAVE THAT ! Then we kiss! That's the rules!
:)
| quote: | Originally posted by Crib
Nicely said Sean |
Thanks buddy! Respect! :)
| quote: | Originally posted by Killah Monkey
And just a note: nesean.. your comments on this thread are awesome...you described everything I wish I could have put into words...nicely done!!! |
Thanks babe - I know what you meant to say and love you for it!
And you - my little monkey - are one of teh sexy girls that I love to see in the clubs - wikkid dancer and fun smiles/kisses all around. I enjoy dancing it up with you and look forward to our next dancefloor devastation together.
BRING IT UP! BRING IT ON!
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| Beach420 |
| ^^ WICKED WICKED!!! |
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| Beach420 |
| ^^ WICKED WICKED!!! |
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| Halycon |
| quote: | Originally posted by naesean3
how did I miss this thread!!
With me being a predominantly gay dude - I have had the joy of many females as friends (a good number of them extremely good looking as well).
Many times in a club setting we have had fun - danced dirty - slapped each others assess......
It was what it was - fun - non-threatening and sexy.
Quite often it is the female initiating and encouraging the behaviour - and it is up to me to decide if I let it continue or not.
Some of my girlfriends saw it as a game (get the other straight guys all hot and bothered) some saw it as a way to release sexual tension and be expressive without worry of subversive intent, hell sometimes I am sure that the girls derived their own pleasure fantasies out of it unbeknownst to me.
Many girls like to go out with their gay friends to gay clubs for many reasons...
the freedom to dance without being oggled and groped constantly
to be sexually free - without being branded a whore
the attention they get from the guys who are gay (ego-boosts and all)
But the "preying on/acting gay" mentality is kinda creepy and as a few have mentioned this is not typically a normal thing among the gay community from what I have seen personally.
Bisexual guys - now there is a different story.
In my experiences:
Most bi-guys like the girl aspect more - and just are open minded to the closeness of a man to man friendship and the fooling around that it can entail because guys are always horny.
This is where some intention can be blurred and misread or mis-interpreted - when you are now including a 100% pool of sexuality to choose from (guys and girls as potential mates) - reasons for sexual union become less clearly defined and more emotionally/sporadically declared as reasons for craving one over the other. Having the best of both worlds can be a curse or a blessing. Each individual makes their choices accordingly.
There are many reasons why people are attracted to each other and sometimes we are not even sure why some people evoke a sexual stimulation in us while towards others we feel nothing.
So until I can bust it out on the dancefloor with my hot boyfriend. I will continue to enjoy the straight women in my life (and a couple of gay ones as well!!) wanting to dance it up with me and partake in some harmless flirting and display of our sexual freedoms. And for the record a few of my close guy friends have also partaked in this flirting as well - and much respect to you - I love you for it!
I hope that I personally have never offended anyone in this manner - for it was never intentional nor with hidden agenda. I usually take my cues from others - so as to not fall into a sticky situation - and I would hope that someone who was offended would of made it clear to me so as I may correct any such behaviour for future.
Interesting thread for sure.........
I have many types of friends for many reasons - some are more clearly defined than others but in the end - they are friends because they make me happy. Happy to be myself and happy to bring joy to their lives through our friendship and the moments we share.
:D |
well put, as far as stubble, i dont put up with it, my bfs on the other hand.. hates it. |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by MarkT
^^^ I think that's rare...if you're gay...you're not out to molest girls.
or do you mean people completely faking being gay, just to cop a feel?
interesting...that's a pretty pathetic ploy...but probably effective, lol. |
i call this a good idea lol
edit : :p |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by naesean3
to be sexually free - without being branded a whore |
And that right there is the problem - they're more concerned with image than reality.
If you want to play then play... who cares how you'll be "branded". Isn't that what clubs are for (or at least part of what they're for)? |
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| zoogla |
Although I've thought about this before, Jeff, I've never personally witnessed it. I guess because of my upbringing in strict environments I haven't met many openly gay people (only in university and now on TA...hehehe sup Sean! :p) but I trust these few people that I've met and none of them ever came onto my gf so I've been very pleased with the respect my gfs and I have been shown.
That is all! :) |
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| dance2dabeat |
| quote: | Originally posted by nadezhda
most gay guys i know are pretty hot.. |
This statement is very true as I have met a fair number of VERY hot looking gay guys...bloody hell. :o
and most of them dont even look my way so no comment on this thread. |
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