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Would you ever have children? (pg. 8)
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| Ania_xox |
| quote: | Originally posted by yukii
meh, yeah, babies are useless at that stage. after 2 when they can talk, they are obnoxious or think they can fool you with & think the world revolves around them & have panic attacks if you don't buy them a doll they fell in love with .20 sec ago. bleh- i don't want to put up with that. |
Wrong.
lol your generalizing here is hilarious
Any kids like what you just described up there likely have very stupid parents who only know how to quick fix problems when it comes to their children. AKA they are lazy, dumb, and should not have children.
My baby cousin will play quietly for an hour by himself with a pair of socks. My bf's two-year-old niece adapts so easily to any situation as long as you sit down with her and explain what is going on (i.e. "We have to go to this place and we`re going to be in the car for a little while and then Aunt Ania is going to take you to see the puppies AFTER")
If you are a loving guardian then the child will love you back and trust you and your rules. It`s lazy parents that don`t explain things to their children who have problems when their kids develop a monstrous sense of entitlement. Rewards are earned. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| Yukii should just stfu when adults are talking. |
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| Slylee |
| yea as much as my mom drives me nuts, i will never put her in a home. in fact, after i have kids and they are talking and walking, i would have no problem having my mom live with us full time in a guest house and be the nanny so i can still work. |
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| yukii |
haha, i guess you're right ania.
bc all those kids i babysat were from the army..
don't want to hit the fan & say that kids from the army are like that, but hell, almost all i babysat for 98% of the time were like that.
the only kids that were nice & polite & i could play with perfectly were the kids that live in front of me here in the US, not in the army..
who knows, maybe im making another assumption. but if i have kids, it's only going to be one, & i hope he/she turns out like those kids here that i babysat, they're pretty damn awesome, the rest sucked :p |
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| MeLLyMeL |
yeah. don't fuking bother.
even in general psych you learn about child development. |
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| Lira |
| I agree with Ania: Kids are awesome, except for that difficult phase that starts when they're 5 years old and finally ends when they're 60 :D |
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| Slylee |
i babysat tons when i was living in japan on a marine base and the kids were fine:conf: a couple of them were brats but they knew better than to pull that with me.
everyone's kids always behave more around me than their parents, it's funny. |
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| Slylee |
the difficult age at 5? :stongue:
yea right. i'm the most scared of teenage years. THAT is when it gets really tough and they become obnoxious little ing know-it-alls. lol man my teenage kids are going to HATE me (and then love me later). |
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| yukii |
| idk, i guess kids just aren't for me. what someone might think as 'cute' or 'brightening smile/laughter' i probably wouldn't recognize. lol just being honest here. but for those who love kids, that's awesome, maybe when i grow up more & maybe some maternal instincts kick in my perspective will be different, till now, im good. :) |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
the difficult age at 5? :stongue: |
That was supposed to be a joke :p |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
(and then love me later). |
Heh... |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by yukii
when i grow up more |
That would imply you've done growing up to begin with. You have a long way to go, honey. |
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