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girlfriend situation (pg. 4)
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| Sphere City |
| what does that mean? |
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| Lira |
| Nothing you could possibly understand, don't worry :) |
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| Sphere City |
| dont get smart with me |
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| FuzzQi |
I wish I had that much drama in my life
Time to go cheatin' |
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| Spam |
| quote: | Originally posted by tyos
hey
I have a "drama" with my girlfriend lately. The thing is that several months ago I cheated on her (kissed another girl). Eventually she found it out... And now she makes me (deliberately)jealous in many different ways. For example she has been talking to her ex (who lately broke up with his gf). He has also sent my gf SMSīs and vice versa.
Now a few days back my gf told that she was going to visit her sister. I was okay with that until a few hours later she told me via MSN that she wonīt make my place before 1 am. (she left at 8 pm). Then she told that they are cooking a pie with her sister... I asked her to take a piece for me (i really wanted to eat it). She sounded a little awkward but agreed to do so. Then about 1 am when i met her she told me that there had been a party visiting her sister. And they had eaten all the pie...
Tell me, am I little TOO paranoid about my girlfriend talking/being to her ex or she really might not have been to her sisters? And the pie was just a lie? |
Take your balls back out of her purse and dump the bitch. And next time, don't cheat on her. |
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| Spam |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sphere City
dont get smart with me |
I lol'd. |
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| KilldaDJ |
| you've ed it, mate. |
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| idoru |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
I like how everyone's saying she's a whore when the guy cheated on her first. It doesn't make her actions justified, but she's just showing him that she's as ready for a serious relationship as he is: this is either over or they're made for one another :)
edit: Typo |
Believe me, I agree. He ed up from the beginning and he should be thankful that she stuck with him for this long. |
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| Spam |
| quote: | Originally posted by idoru
Believe me, I agree. He ed up from the beginning and he should be thankful that she stuck with him for this long. |
Is she really "sticking with" him though? From the description of events, it sounds like she's on her way out, but sticking around out of convenience.
He was an idiot to cheat on her, and he's even more stupid not to cut her off when it's clear she's about to do it herself in the near future anyway. |
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| idoru |
| Of course she's not. I'm just saying that if he actually felt bad, he's lucky he got some more time. I'll love it if she has been ing someone on the side ever since he cheated, though. That'd be lulz. |
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| Lews |
Easy suggestion: Don't around with someone else.
Is monogamy that ing hard of a concept to understand? God damn. |
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| Theresa |
Ok first of all, we can't assume that she is cheating on him, or is going to cheat on him.
It is common practice for people to try and intentionally get their mate to be jealous in an attempt to remind them that they are desirable (if other men want her, then he should want her too). Since he cheated on her, she probably feels the need to re-assert this notion, aka why she is making him jealous by talking to her ex.
With this being said however, he has made her feel unwanted by cheating on her, and likely destroyed her trust in him and confidence in the relationship. Conversely, her attempt to remind him that she is desired is making him paranoid (possibly with good reason,) and thus making him distrust her. At the end of the day, when the trust is gone, I would argue that the relationship is pretty much ruined, unless you two work REALLY hard on re-building the trust. My guess is that you are young and if this is the case, you probably wont bother to work on actually fixing the relationship.
Conclusion? Break up with her. Your relationship is likely headed in that direction anyway. |
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