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| EricB. |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Easy there, Eric, calm down. I know Nou's ideas are polemic and somewhat ill-founded but attacking him and Brian like that does no good :) |
maybe so but its fun. :)
we attack everyone for posting up personal information, serious threads make no difference. If Nou is free to troll a serious thread i believe one is free to personally attack in one as well. |
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| EricB. |
| quote: | Originally posted by Joss Weatherby
You act like I am really roiling in pain about this. You are right, it was before I was born. It didn't affect me. I also do not let my parents emotions affect me.
Obviously from your reactionary and violent posts I have touched a nerve in you though, and for that I am sorry. I hope you deal with whatever issue it is that you have gotten so upset about. It wasn't my intention with this thread. Its far more an academic experience than it is any sort of personal or emotional one for me. |
You should have thought about that before you posted false information regarding DA. You talk alot of and grab at anything to validate your points, even make up bull. That is my problem with you in this thread.
However, like i said if you were anyone other then nou i would probably just let it slide and not give a . However, since you habitually do this i feel there is a need to attack whenever you do.
In an earlier post you said DA was not out getting help meanwhile the whole time he was. You just make up random sometimes, and when its something about someone I know, I get upset.
I am not the only person you pissed off in this thread though. I only met DA a few times |
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| Lews |
| I can't believe this is still going on.. |
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| EddieZilker |
| quote: | Originally posted by epicaricacy
answer the question. |
What question? |
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| Joss Weatherby |
| quote: | Originally posted by EricB.
You should have thought about that before you posted false information regarding DA. You talk alot of and grab at anything to validate your points, even make up bull. That is my problem with you in this thread.
However, like i said if you were anyone other then nou i would probably just let it slide and not give a . However, since you habitually do this i feel there is a need to attack whenever you do.
In an earlier post you said DA was not out getting help meanwhile the whole time he was. You just make up random sometimes, and when its something about someone I know, I get upset.
I am not the only person you pissed off in this thread though. I only met DA a few times |
It was obvious from how DA acted on Ourboard that he was NOT getting help. He posted there for a number of years after he quit here and I do not believe you are a member of that forum, so kindly off when you say I didn't know what was going on.
It was very clear, not only to me, but I am sure to many many other that he had a death wish for a very long time. |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| What is "Ourboard?" |
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| EddieZilker |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
What is "Ourboard?" |
It's a secret forum!@ A SECRET FORUM!! HERE AT TA!!! OMG! |
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| FuzzQi |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
WHY YES!
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Awesome :p |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by EricB.
maybe so but its fun. :)
we attack everyone for posting up personal information, serious threads make no difference. If Nou is free to troll a serious thread i believe one is free to personally attack in one as well. |
Though I don't think he's actually trolling (he genuinely thinks like that), you do have a point :p |
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| epicaricacy |
| quote: | Originally posted by EddieZilker
What question? |
| quote: | Originally posted by epicaricacy
so mentally ill people have no pain?
dumb dumb dumb dumb dummmmmmmmb |
also i find it hilarious that you attempt to rationalize people with mental illnesses with logic. ;)
system j is better at this than you. |
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| EricB. |
| quote: | Originally posted by Joss Weatherby
It was obvious from how DA acted on Ourboard that he was NOT getting help. He posted there for a number of years after he quit here and I do not believe you are a member of that forum, so kindly off when you say I didn't know what was going on.
It was very clear, not only to me, but I am sure to many many other that he had a death wish for a very long time. |
he did have a death wish for a very long time. However, He was getting help. I dont want to divulge into the business of deceased man, but just for your knowledge he was doing what he could and was out doing the right things and seeing the right people. he lost his battle though. Help doesn't always work. It's help, not a get out of jail free card.
you know what nou and just to shut you up about how suicide's always hurt the fmaily and the people around I think I will tell you a lil story from my own personal experience. I dont tell many people about this. it recently happened to my family and I really shouldn't be sharing this on a public forum. However, I want to shine some light on you.
My grandmother recently died the other month and by definition she took her own life and thus committed suicide. At the age of 86. It all started with a cancer scare. She was hospitalized for a few weeks because they found something in her liver. She ended up giving up her house thinking she could no longer take care of it and sold all of her furniture. It ended up that it was nothing but a scare and the cancer has been present for 9 years and laid dormaint in her liver. She was released form the hospital and now had no home because she gave up the lease. She movedin with my aunt, but after a 2 months felt very uncomrfotable being there as she has always been independent and felt like a burden on my aunt. She checked herself into an old folks home. Things were going well in there for the first 2 weeks, when all of a sudden depression hit. She began starving herself knowing very well she had diabetes and this would most liley kill her. She hadnt eaten anything in weeks and called to talk her son, my father. She told my dad shes 86 and has lived a full life. SHe has nothing left to live for. All of her friends are dead and all of her family and siblings. She was the last one. She has seen all her grandchildren grow up and her children, and they no longer need her. She did not want to wait to die in a old person's home and was starving herself. Well at fiorst my father just thought she was crying for attention and let it be. Until we got a call that she entered into a diabetic coma from not eating. She came out of the coma and asked to see my father. So of course my mother and him, jumped on the next flight to italy. They met up with her, and played it off like they were there for vacation. The last 2 days of my grandmothers life was left spending time with her 2 children remisnicing about the good ol days, laughing and tears. She finally passed away after starving herself for 2 months with nothing but IV giving her nutrients. She died from complications from her diabetes.
She lived to be 86 years old. lived a full life. She was a person who always did what they want when they wanted. It was only suiting she would decide when she wanted to die. I am not god but she had nothing wrong with her other then diabetes, she could have lived for more years to come. She was a strong woman and knew when she her job here was done. She hasnt left any of the family in shambles. I am quite proud of her for how she dealt with it. If I live to 90 and i have nothing left, no meaning, no purpose, no more friends, no more family i too hope I am strong enough to know when too call it quits.
It was a peaceful passing and we grieved like we grieved when my other grandparents passed. It was a bit different of a death but it was very noble, and truly defined her personality. She felt she lived her life to its fullest and was ready to pass. My family is not in shambles over it and life went on. That takes strength and courage to me. Her last days she was afriad of pasisng in her sleep alone and would ask my parents to stay with her. She wasn't escaping a hell for her own self she just felt it was time. I don't know how that feeling is like I'm not 86 years old nor do i think i will ever reach that age, few people do. |
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