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I'm in love with a friend and I don't know what to do (pg. 16)
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
you know if we were both single i would be all over that. ;) |
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| Yohan |
| quote: | Originally posted by FunkyCrew
oh I always smack and kick for that :p |
lol. remind me to wear a medieval armour whenever i'm around you, wifey ;) |
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| Yohan |
| quote: | Originally posted by VDub
Has this convo gone so long that you're starting to repeat what I already said??? |
lol. i'm still trying to figure out how to get myself out of this minefield of a convo :p |
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| ChemEnhanced |
| quote: | Originally posted by Yohan
so girls, don't be so hard on guys if he looks at an another girl, as long as it's just a look, and no touch :p |
but that even goes against the males natural instinct....women should just understand that if we sleep with hundreds of women its not because we love any of them...we are just filling our animal instinct to spread our genetics all over the place. |
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| quote: | Originally posted by ChemEnhanced
Guys are friends with girls for one reason and one reason only. |
Not true. Before i met my soon to be wife, i was a total man slut, but i have had female friends who were totally platonic, and who weren't even fat or ugly. |
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| FunkyCrew |
| quote: | Originally posted by Yohan
lol. remind me to wear a medieval armour whenever i'm around you, wifey ;) |
oh you know you won't look elsewhere with me around :cool: :p :toothless :thepirate |
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| RobSt*r |
| quote: | Originally posted by ChemEnhanced
its not because we love any of them... |
I think I fixed that for ya |
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| ChemEnhanced |
| quote: | Originally posted by RobSt*r
I think I fixed that for ya |
yes...thanks |
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| Endlesswave |
| quote: | Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~*
I still disagree and there have been MEN in this thread that have said the same thing. But as I said before, and Kennifer pointed out, while it IS possible, it's just the exception to the norm.
Have you never met a girl through a mutual friend and liked her just for her personality? Or do you only meet girls when you're trying to pick them up? As Sandeep mentioned, he's never had sexual feelings towards me or "sized me up" and we met through mutual friends. The majority of my guy friends I did not meet b/c they were trying to pick me up, or started talking to me b/c they were trying to get in my pants. Rather, I met them through mutual friends. So we already had something in common and had a good chance of liking each others' personalities b/c we both picked out a friend who's qualities we liked.
All I'm saying is that it's possible, and it happens. But look at the number of men in the thread who agree with this...there's some, but the vast majority agree with you. Isn't that perfect evidence that it is possible, just the exception?
And as for your bolded part - I was specifically asking what he thought about all guya wanting to bang their girlfriends at some point. So he didn't mean "after they had gotten past the point where he wanted to sleep with her".
Attraction is a different thing in my opinion. Of course you're going to think ppl of the opposite sex (or same sex if you swing that way) are attractive - and be default some of your friends. But that doesn't mean that you're going to think every man or woman you encounter is attractive. |
Well when I mean it's not possible I mean that for I'd say the majority. For sure there are always exceptions to the rule. It does work both ways.
| quote: | Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~*
(But, as he and I both mentioned before, if I told him I wanted to sleep with him he would. And this, I believe is different from actively wanting to sleep with your friends). |
That's the same thing. Just b/c he hasn't mentioned it doesn't mean he doesn't want to. That's my point (and others' as well). Just having the thought in their head proves it... |
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| Intangible |
| quote: | Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~*
Thank you. |
lol yes thank you.
Even though I've been called a tease on many occassions. But once people start to get to know me and know thats how I ALWAYS am they start to get me and enjoy my playful manner... i think lol
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
lol. coming from tease number 3. hahahaha. |
hahaha Lisa, Kristina and I can coin ourselves the 'the three teases' :p (even though sooo not true)
| quote: | Originally posted by ChemEnhanced
Humans will tolerate other humans being around them....if one human enters a territory that another human has claimed they will either accept that person into their territoy or won't. If you accept them into your territory you will be friendly towards them and allow them into your social circle. If you don't accept them then you will either tell them to off or show weakness and remove yourself from the territory.
edit: We haven't evolved above our natural animal instincts...its nice to think that but we haven't. |
PLEAAASSEEEEE!!! :rolleyes: Humans are far more complex in wants, needs, desires, ambitions, emotions, happiness, etc... The fact that you think we even compare to a monkey is insulting... speak for yourself but I'm no chimp :p |
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| FunkyCrew |
| quote: | Originally posted by Intangible
hahaha Lisa, Kristina and I can coin ourselves the 'the three teases' :p (even though sooo not true)
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food for thought - I was only ever called a tease by other girls :toocool: |
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| RobSt*r |
| quote: | Originally posted by Endlesswave
That's the same thing. Just b/c he hasn't mentioned it doesn't mean he doesn't want to. |
My argument would be using the word "WOULD" instead of "WANT"
I fall into this category myself. I would do lots of my girl friends, doesn't mean I WANT to. |
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