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I'm in love with a friend and I don't know what to do (pg. 5)
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| *~LiSa-LoO~* |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
well, don't you have to like the person even a little bit to be friends with them? and therefore, the thought of "i wonder how it would be to have sex with that person", is there at some point and maybe it eventually goes away, but it was there or will be there in the future. |
If you mean "don't I have to romantically like the person in order to be friends with them. No. In my lifetime, I have not felt a romantic or sexual connection with every one of my guy friends.
If you just meant "don't I have to like the person in order to be friends with them". Yes, obviously I'm not going to be friends with someone I don't like. But just b/c I like someone's personality doesn't mean I want to sleep with them, b/c I don't. lol
But there's a difference btwn thinking at one time "I wonder how it would be to have sex with that person" and constantly wanting to have sex with all of your girlfriends though. |
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| Jennifer_P_ |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
lol. come on here in 5 years and let us know how that turns out. i gurantee you, that either the friendship won't last, or that you will be dating unless he is very ugly and undateable and therefore he is your best friend like a dog is your best friend. |
... the thought of it makes me think of getting darty with my brother.
Honestly - I can't talk about the situation openly so I won't but I agree that our friendship is unique. |
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| chinamon |
| quote: | Originally posted by Dior Homme
but anyway, i dont have a lot of close girlfriends anymore because i couldn't keep mr. happy away. |
so now you have lots of boy friends because they dont mind when mr happy comes out to play? |
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| Jennifer_P_ |
| quote: | Originally posted by chinamon
so now you have lots of boy friends because they dont mind when mr happy comes out to play? |
... despite all the problems they cause - I still have total penis envy. |
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by evil_cookie
LOL wicked. |
lol. are you the friend? |
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| evil_cookie |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
lol. are you the friend? |
lol wut, no.
I just agree with what you said. |
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~*
If you mean "don't I have to romantically like the person in order to be friends with them. No. In my lifetime, I have not felt a romantic or sexual connection with every one of my guy friends.
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lol. did you look at that ladder theory thing?
basically, two people meet, they size each other up (if they are single). do i want to sleep with this person, do i want to be friends with this person, do i want to kill them cuz they are annoying, etc. the possibility of a sexual relationship always comes up, and will come up. just cuz you choose one specific person to be with in the end, doesn't mean you didn't try sizing yourself up to each one of your male friends. if the connection is not there, it's not there, but at least the possibility of it comes up. |
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| TranceGrooves |
Since i have been married and my penis is off market...more girls approach me and try to start a conversation.
Why is that ? |
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| ChemEnhanced |
| quote: | Originally posted by TranceGrooves
Since i have been married and my penis is off market...more girls approach me and try to start a conversation.
Why is that ? |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jennifer_P_
haha - solution to causing more issues? |
No, it's just the solution, period. Got a problem? Grab a penis. Problem solved. |
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| VDub |
| quote: | Originally posted by ChemEnhanced
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'Tis true...
It's a real bitch cause you have to run away.... |
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| Halycon |
| quote: | Originally posted by VDub
'Tis true...
It's a real bitch cause you have to run away.... |
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