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I'm in love with a friend and I don't know what to do (pg. 3)
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| DigiNut |
Lol, it's been a while since the last TA "relationship thread."
I predict 278 posts before the thread is locked. |
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| infinity HiGH |
| quote: | Originally posted by ChemEnhanced
Even if a guy never says anything or acts on it...in the back of their head they are always hoping. |
That's not true. |
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| Abercrombie |
| quote: | Originally posted by GDLF11
I don't sense that it's reciprocated. And I can't muster the courage to tell him because I don't want to destroy our friendship but I don't feel right "deceiving" him like this.
What would you do? |
Are you a dude, or a betty? |
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| Jennifer_P_ |
| quote: | Originally posted by barbina
See I don't believe that theory at all. I have completely platonic relationships with girls of the straight and gay variety. I don't mind sleeping with my friends, but its not the basis of our relationships - ever.
I also have amazing friendships with guys who I know would never sleep with me, and I with them. Its not about attraction or sexuality, but its levels of friendship.
But of course.. there are always the select few ..
Maybe I just have great friends who understand the meanings of friendship and sex. |
but see Barb - you're a girl. Just like I can easily-see myself having a platonic friendship with a guy - you are able to have platonic relationships.
The problem is the penis babe ~ it's all because of their penises :p |
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| barbina |
I think theres a difference between hoping and surveying the situation.
I meet anyone and I think of how we could possibly bang - whether I intend to, want to or could even really make it happen. Its just me assessing the person infront of me. Its not me basing a friendship on sex.
I think thats normal.
edit: I've been told I think more like a guy, but if we're talking peniis here then I'm definitely blaming it on them ;) haha <3 you Jen |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jennifer_P_
The solution is the penis |
Fixed. |
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| infinity HiGH |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
Fixed. |
:haha: |
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| Jennifer_P_ |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
Fixed. |
haha - solution to causing more issues?
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| chinamon |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jennifer_P_
99.999% of the time - agreed |
the other 0.001% means he is gay. |
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| Jennifer_P_ |
| quote: | Originally posted by chinamon
the other 0.001% means he is gay. |
... see - as idealistic as I would like to be about it and as forward-thinking as I consider myself to be ~ this is the truth girls - suck it up lol. |
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| VDub |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jennifer_P_
I won't talk too much about it bc too many people here can easily-figure out who I'm talking about - but trust me... nothing naive about it - there's no lov'n between us and we're very very close. |
If it's so innocent, why can't ppl know who you're talking about??? |
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| ChemEnhanced |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jennifer_P_
... see - as idealistic as I would like to be about it and as forward-thinking as I consider myself to be ~ this is the truth girls - suck it up lol. |
and if any guy tells you otherwise...they are saying that just in hopes it will get them somewhere. |
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