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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by ********
Are you sure that was open then? I'm pretty sure it was under construction around that time. |
It was definately open (opened in 99/00 I believe).
| quote: | | What you don't get is that I purchased cigarettes there previously by the same clerk without ID. |
What you don't get is that it doesn't matter. Once it became apparent that she was not going to give you the smokes without ID you should have left.
| quote: | | There are a bunch of people that would be pissed off if the clerk droped the sale and started serving another person. How would you feel in the same situation? You don't find what she did to be a little offensive to you? |
Will, there's a world of difference between being pissed off and/or offended and starting a conflict over it. There is an even greater difference between being pissed off and escallating that conflict to the point that a police officer feels the need to detain you. Sure, lots of people would be upset if what you claim happened did happen to them; however, exceedingly few would progress through the series of events that you did ultimately ending in your detention. This is what indicates you have a problem, Will; not that you got upset but that you followed that through the series of events you described... a rational and psychologically stable person simply would not do that. Can you at least recognize that your actions exhibit poor judgment? |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by ********
What history of erratic behaviour? |
Dude, if you had just left Club Abstract that's enough of a history of erratic behaviour to be concerned ;) :p
(anyone from K-Dub will find that funny... the rest of you, sorry but WOOSH) |
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| Chris Crossland |
| quote: | | - someone diagnosed as being mentally unstable on 3 seperate occasions |
| quote: | Originally posted by ********
On 1 occasion and if you don't believe my explanation don't. Ive never been diagnosed as "unstable". |
When you say on one occasion when referring to being unstable on 3 separate occasions, YOUR STILL SAYING YOU'VE BEEN DIAGNOSED AS BEING MENTALLY UNSTABLE ONE ING TIME.
Bad communication right? Just like that cop. YOU ARE ED IN THE HEAD!
I'd like to kill you, and every single one of your relatives to wipe out your bloodline. ing swine. |
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| w_ashley |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
It was definately open (opened in 99/00 I believe).
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I can't confirm this, none the less I wasn't aware of them as 24 hour locations.
| quote: | | What you don't get is that it doesn't matter. Once it became apparent that she was not going to give you the smokes without ID you should have left. |
She stated I could speak with the manager but I didn't see the manager so I continued speaking with her.
| quote: | | Will, there's a world of difference between being pissed off and/or offended and starting a conflict over it. |
I didn't start a conflict, I continued speaking. I didn't start the refusal, the clerk did. See the difference. Continueing a discussion isn't a conflict.
| quote: | | There is an even greater difference between being pissed off and escallating that conflict to the point that a police officer feels the need to detain you. |
I personally feel the cop did a very poor job in the situation. He didn't take time to take control fo the situation verbally, he opted to use physical means even though they weren't required. All I was doing was speaking with the clerk. That isn't grounds to physically remove someone. What you do is start talking. The cop used physical means when simple discourse would have been sufficient. You will undoubtedly defend the cop but the cop used force when it wasn't required. I was given grounds to be on the premises to speak with the manager, but the clerk didn't get the manager for me, and I wasn't aware of who she was at the time.
| quote: | | Sure, lots of people would be upset if what you claim happened did happen to them; however, exceedingly few would progress through the series of events that you did ultimately ending in your detention. |
Talking with the clerk is all that happened. The cop came in secretly didn't clearly communicated and within 10 seconds opted to use force to remove me.
| quote: | | This is what indicates you have a problem, Will; not that you got upset but that you followed that through the series of events you described... a rational and psychologically stable person simply would not do that. Can you at least recognize that your actions exhibit poor judgment? |
You are saying - I did it. I didn't. I spoke with the clerk about the situation. I was physical attacked by the cop without the cop giving a valid attempt at communication.
That is all there is too it. You can say it was me, but the fact is I didn't do anything that was inappropriate given the circumstances.
1. The clerk should have obtained the manager as she was required to do by her store policy.
2. The cop should have communicated rather than use force since I wasn't violent at the time. And was communicating verbally. |
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| ChemEnhanced |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Dude, if you had just left Club Abstract that's enough of a history of erratic behaviour to be concerned ;) :p
(anyone from K-Dub will find that funny... the rest of you, sorry but WOOSH) |
I've somehow missed the whole Club Asscrack portion of the story....this does explain a lot. |
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| Capitalizt |
| quote: | Originally posted by ********
I spoke with the clerk about the situation. I was physical attacked by the cop without the cop giving a valid attempt at communication. |
Stop shooting yourself in the foot dumbass. You've already stated that "in retrospect, the cop was saying stuff when he walked in, but I was too involved with the clerk to understand him". Your crazy ass completely blocked out the cop's presence and what he was saying to you. Chances are he was telling you back away and come with him. He interpreted your ignoring him as a form of resistance..and when you finally regained focus, you ignored his command to get down, then you ignored his warning that he would spray you, then you got sprayed.
You're an idiot. |
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| Meat187 |
| Will this thread never end?!?! :wtf: |
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| w_ashley |
| quote: | Originally posted by Chris Crossland
When you say on one occasion when referring to being unstable on 3 separate occasions, YOUR STILL SAYING YOU'VE BEEN DIAGNOSED AS BEING MENTALLY UNSTABLE ONE ING TIME.
Bad communication right? Just like that cop. YOU ARE ED IN THE HEAD!
I'd like to kill you, and every single one of your relatives to wipe out your bloodline. ing swine. |
I wasn't unstable that is the point. I was calm and collected until I started being drugged. Being unstable because you are being overdosed with mind altering drugs is a pretty valid reason for mental instability. My body was pretty messed up at the time in general due to the drugings.
I'm not going to abet on this one.
Dude I have no fear of death, but I can't exactly counsel you.
"ED IN THE HEAD"
how so?
What is so ed up about me?
Give me some things.
I'm very skilled at communication, unforunately others arn't able to communicate very well because they have barriers to their communication due to social indoctrination making some subjects taboo.
So while you can say I'm ed in the head for breaching social taboos that wern't illegal. I don't find that as me being ed up, that is society that is ed up for prohibiting freedom of thought and expression. If it ain't illegal why care? |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by ********
I didn't do anything that was inappropriate given the circumstances. |
Yes you did, Will. You should have recognized that you were not going to get what you wanted and left. Take some ownership of this man... you're not a victim or at very least not a blameless victim. |
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| w_ashley |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Yes you did, Will. You should have recognized that you were not going to get what you wanted and left. Take some ownership of this man... you're not a victim or at very least not a blameless victim. |
I should have gotten the cigs. It wasn't me who made the situation.
It was other people who restricted my freedoms who created the problem.
See the difference. I was acting lawfully. They were acting in a way which infringed my fundamental rights.
There ain't more to it. |
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| Meat187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by ********
I'm very skilled at communication, unforunately others arn't able to communicate very well [...] |
My impression is that you have a serious problem with communication, frequently misassesing how other perceive your actions and words as well as yourself misunderstanding their points and intentions. Most of the stories you told underline this.
Even your resume, as you seem to be completely unaware of how a potential employer will understand the Stone Reiki Master thing. |
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| colonelcrisp |
| quote: | Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
I have 3 hobbies: gaming, DJing & correcting maladjusted fools on the internet. |
congratulations you just beat out Bas for top spot on the sig worthy list....
But dont let it go to your head, remember....
this pack of smokes holds the power to ruin your life, medicate you and make you crazy:crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: |
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