| Slylee |
i'm really frustrated with my dad right now. i love him dearly and respect him and we're very close (we talk on the phone for about 20 minutes almost every day on my way home from work), but he hasn't contributed a friggin DIME towards my education and i'm sitting here looking for a 2nd job and asking for help from my mom who makes like HALF what he makes and she does what she can to help me, but it's bull.
he's not very good with finances and he's known to spend money on ridiculous things and stuff like that, but i think he's gotten better recently, but he STILL hasn't offerred to help me! his stupid ass fat wife sits on her ass and doesn't work and is always visiting her family for like a month at a time (that's not really a good sign, why would she want to be away from her husband of only 4 years for so long?) and she buys her neices all these fancy gifts for xmas and my sister and i get from the dollar store now (like literally, the dollar store crap). and i'm not griping because i want nice things for xmas, i'm just pissed that she takes over the whole job of buying gifts now and gets us the cheapest crap she can find, while saving my DAD'S MONEY for HER family's gifts. it's bull.
he just took a new job offer for like 120k a year with a 15k sign on bonus, and here i am telling him every day how i'm stressed and im going on job interviews for a 2nd job because i wont be able to afford school and he's just like, "well! let me know how the interview went honey...i love you, bye" :wtf:
i just bitched at my mom about it and she agrees. she's gonna call him tonight and tell him that i need help with school and she can't afford to keep loaning me hundreds of dollars for it. but why hasn't he offerred to help me? :(
if i had a husband with 2 daughters from a previous marriage, i would totally want to help them out and get in good with his family and encourage him to send her money for college, instead of hogging it all to go shopping and visiting my family all the time. i mean christ, can't she at least get a job to pay for her own ?!
i mean, unless i popped out like 3 kids and i was a stay at home mom, then that's the only way i could like not work and use my husband's money for stuff. but they aren't having kids and she's perfectly able to hold a job and help out, but she doesn't want to.
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